Having a girlfriend that loves you is about the best thing in the world. You wake up every day knowing there is someone who makes your life sweet.
But, even the best boyfriends make the mistake of believing their relationship is picture-perfect. The fact is that you have to do more to make your girlfriend happy.
It is not about taking a trip to the Bahamas once a month. You can do small, daily things to make her smile and make her day awesome.
Let’s go over the basics first. Cook your girl a homemade meal, and do it without even needing an ounce of extravagance. A simple dish like bliss potatoes will do the trick.
Girls are all about details. Do you know those moments when your girl notices you paired up the clothes wrong?
Well, they like when you pay attention to details too. Get a cast iron pan, and cook some bliss potatoes. Serve it as breakfast or even lunch and add some meat to it. You get bonus points if you prepare a salad too.
You can even ask her to cook together. Or, even better, you can make breakfast at least once a month. Even if you are a far cry from Gordon Ramsey, the cast iron works in your favor. That is a fact.
Girls spend a lot of time caring for their bodies. Surprise her by buying her Chebe powder.
Chebe powder is an organic ingredient rich in nutrients. Apply it to the hair before showering. The Chebe powder increases hair thickness and volume, making it appear longer.
Showing that you care about her hair is going to be a huge step in your relationship. It is one thing to pay for her visit to the hair salon.
Yet, it is totally another thing when you become a part of the routine. The best thing about it is that you don’t have to do extensive learning. Girls know these things, so introduce her to Chebe powder. Watch her enjoy it and wash her hair from time to time.
Then, it is time to get intimate. At least, get intimate with your girl in a spiritual way. Try to find something new about her.
There is a mistake that is like karma when it comes to guys in a relationship. Girls mistake that for lack of care. In reality, guys settle in and stop trying to learn and freshen up their relationship.
Avoid that like a plague. Try to find something new. And, that doesn’t mean you should go full Sherlock Holmes on her.
Instead, let her get in her groove. Spend time with her and genuinely ask her about her day and life. You’ll be surprised what you can find out.
Or you can watch her favorite Netflix show. It doesn’t matter, at least as you spend doing something she loves.
Girls have their favorite media that you probably don’t know about. Most of the time, they fear that you would judge them for their favorite show. Break the cycle, and watch a few episodes with her.
Even if you don’t like it, stay strong king. Keep watching like your life depends on it, and do it to see her smile.
At the end, who knows, maybe you even like the show. And even if you don’t, you can still make that little sacrifice for her.
Texting her doesn’t mean you should spend every waking second sending her messages. It’s those texts that show care, compassion, and genuine interest that count.
By now, you should get a common theme here. Making your girlfriend happy is more about the details than those big undertakings or flights of heart.
It’s what you do each day and how you do it that counts. Send her a text, and make it kind of sloppy if you have. Shed some true emotion into it, and write something intimate.
Make her feel that life is going to get a new dimension when she comes home to you. Those things are the things that make relationships last.
Buying her things should be mandatory. No excuses for this one, you have to earn the money and spend it on your girl. That’s like the moment Moses receives the stone tablet from God, it’s the law.
Of course, you don’t have to go to Sephora and get a gold necklace once a month. The worst thing and the best thing at the same time is that you can get something small.
But that small thing should be either very pragmatic or of an emotional value. So, you don’t want to buy her a wrench. But, you can fix something at her apartment at your expense. Or, buy her some summer slippers she likes and talks about.
Make it count whatever you do.
Out of all the advice here, this advice is crucial. You have to spend the end of the day with her.
Once she comes tired from the job, you don’t want her to spend that time alone. Of course, it’s a huge plus if you can prepare her a meal or a little surprise. But, if you also work and don’t have time for that, go for a take-out.
Order something and cuddle up with her. Wait for the food. Watch a movie, or make some tea and put on some music.
It’s those moments that count the most. Make each count like it’s your last day on Earth.
By going out, you don’t have to do a Jersey Shore episode with her. Girls love to see that you care. It can be something as small as taking her out for some coffee.
Of course, taking her out for dinner is much better, but you get the drift. And, not everything has to do with leisure.
The thing you can do daily is to help her with her groceries and shopping. While it’s not as fun as going to a cafe, it’s more practical.
Match fun and real-life needs and make the most out of the time you spend with her.
Loyalty is probably the most important element of any relationship. Couples that stay loyal stay together.
Now, you shouldn’t put your hand into the fire to prove to her you love her. But, being honest about what you do, who you text, should be her business.
Make sure to assure her that there are no external invaders in the sanctuary of your relationship. Assure her that she’s only for you.
With all of that, set up the stage for one thing you should never stop doing.
Don’t forget to tell her you to love her. Maybe she feels that way, but it’s not bad if you do your bid to tell her anyway.
Affection is in the action, but words are sharper than swords. Hold her tight, keep her close, and tell her how much you love her.
It’s the small things that count. Never stop working on the details to keep the relationship going.
Do it for your girl. She’s worth it.